Then, you're talking to the wrong people.

[ jim wants to think that he'd be one of those people that isn't wrong, that he'd be able to deal with sexual contact without touching but it's one of those things he's never actually tried so he can't say for sure. ]

I bet there's other people who feel the same way or can't initiate sexual contact for one reason or another. I want to hope that whoever's running this place wouldn't have brought you here to be disappointed.