Mm. I was more thinking of the areas where permission is granted - but no actual guidance provided. Consensual does matter - and does make things better.

[ Basch, not everyone has a loyalty kink-- NEVER MIND.

He leans back slightly. Among the buzz of 'discussion,' the conversation has enough of an illusion of privacy so his flush has calmed down, at least. ]

Have you had the occasion to grant such forgiveness?