Indeed. I think you could have your pick, if that's what you were interested in.

[ Erik learned subtlety as a survival tactic, coming of age in a time and place where the simple act of loving another man could land him in prison. Or worse. But here it's something to be indulged in. A game to see if the other person will play along or get impatient. Or just miss the game entirely.

He keeps playing. For his own amusement, if nothing else. ]

If you tell me some of your other criteria, perhaps I could point you in the direction of worthwhile candidates.