Luckily the majority of the population is male, so that shouldn't be too difficult.

[ Lucky for Temple, Erik finds the obliviousness cute. Maybe he'll walk away never getting it. Maybe he'll actually pick up on it. Either way, Erik is amused enough that it's still worthwhile. His lips are curved in a smile as he regards the younger man. ]

You have to have some sort of preferences beyond "an older man with a good personality". You know, I've been with more than a few. [ He winks. ] You're not going to get shy now, are you?